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If Your Girlfriend And You Are Both 15. But Have JobsAnd She's Pregnant. But Her Mother And Father Want The Baby Because They Can't Have Another Of Their Own Can Your Girlfriend Keep The Baby?

Perhaps you are misunderstanding your girlfriend's parents. She is far too young to manage looking after a baby and certainly neither of you can afford the expenses of this little babe. Her parents obviously want their daughter to finish her education and are willing to help raise this child and I have no doubt your parents feel the same. I can't see her parents wanting to just "take the baby" and raise it while their daughter watches them knowing all the time (with pain in her heart) that is her child and not theres. They are the grandparents and she is the birth mother!!!!

Yes, your girlfriend can fight for the rights of remaining the mother of that child, but this is what I wish you would do:

I think it's time your parents and her parents sat down together with you and your girlfriend present and decide what is best for the baby. There are two ways they can go:

  1. Put the baby up for adoption.
  1. Your parents and her parents come to an understanding that they are grandparents and her parents help their daughter raise this child while your parents have some rights to see this baby if they so choose and you, being the father should be able to help out where you can and try to be the father to this baby.

I know adults can sometimes appear to be unfeeling when it comes to this. You be the first to stand your ground (even at 15) and talk to your parents first and ask them politely if they would meet with her parents (hopefully they will say yes) and then be a man (if you are old enough to create a baby, you are old enough to stand on your own two feet) and politely tell her parents that your parents are willing to meet and the 6 of you can sit down and work something out that will make all of you reasonably happy.

I also would like you to be firm on this and tell your parents and hers, that just because both of you are 15 doesn't mean you don't have feelings, and both of you will be an responsible as you can and help out where you can. There is no way most women (no matter what age) really want to give up their baby to adoption or to parents or any other relative.

I think it's time your parents and hers started to see how much they can especially hurt your girlfriend, but also yourself. Everyone is hurting, but the main concern is that unborn baby. If you both want that child then fight for it!

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It's you're baby. I think if she wants to keep the baby by all means keep the baby. By law if she hasn't had any problems with drugs or anything then she can legally keep the baby. When she has the baby she will considered an adult(mother of said baby).

If you want that baby then you might as well raise it with your girlfriend and maybe if you really feel that having that baby was wrong without marrying the girl; if you feel like it ask her to marry you.

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