If you are 16 and pregnant how do you get your mom to accept your 15-year-old boyfriend so that you can be together?

Answer 1

95% of females in there teenage years are normally more socially and emotionally advanced than males, so my first question would be, what happened to the girl to be so delayed in both or either area that she would find so much in common with a male younger? Ask your mom why and have her write these answers on paper, this will hurt most likely but then you would know what areas you need to work on to be as close to your female same age peers. Truly give it 3 months to improve these areas, and limit your time with boy severely, after three months than once again have social contact with same boy, does he seem very immature to you?, and i do not mean sexually, male puppies can have sex in 3 months after birth so do not go there if that is what you thought is a point in his favor for maturity. Does he have personal problems of his own that make you seem to be almost always sympathetic to him and your trying to do or say things to make him happy? When you are with him did you laugh and smile more than half the time? Did it seem like you felt like you were carrying all the load in your conversation? Now here is the rarity, and i mean rare. sometimes a girl will find a younger male in his teens who may have lead so far a very emotional life that he had no choice to grow up fast. Downside these are usually depressed people, loners, or over actors in school like class clowns, they may make you laugh but when you look in there eyes when no one is looking you see pain and age in them. Upside if this kind of male gets positive reenforcement out side of family circle they do well in school and will continue there education. If they do not though watch out, these boys will tend to drink, drive very fast to prove something to themselves, may or may not do drugs, and most important over cling to the female telling her she is everything to him and sexually doing his best to convince the girl step by step going farther and farther to intercourse, girl usually becomes pregnant and is trapped and stays with boy. A Girl usually does not see this coming most of the time before she grows up to about 20 years old, by than has maybe more than one baby. Let me know how it goes. remember one thing your mother will be only around for 40 or so many years , and yes rebellious girls can hurt moms so bad with the things they say and do, that her mother will close her love in her heart take a huge step back and let you fall right on your face. Not for pleasure, not because she does not want to be your mom, but because moms are human too and words can cut her just as deep and lasting as you claim hers does to you. love your mother.