If you awoke one night to find your baby's clothing off and your narcissistic boyfriend said you never dressed her wouldn't you think he did something to her while you were asleep? |
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Either he did something to her, or he undressed her and is saying you did because he wants you to question your sanity (it's called "gaslighting" someone -- Google it).
If you seriously think he did something to her, you need to check her for signs of sexual abuse and take her to a doctor (do NOT bathe her first).
If you are seeing someone who would possibly harm your child in that way, you need to re-evaulate and terminate that relationship. You owe it to your child. She can't protect herself. It's up to you to do that.
~ T
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SOMETHING'S going on and although I don't know what (I agree with the person above about what to do if you suspect sexual abuse) I know that if you feel in your gut that something isn't right, that's enough reason to get out. Trust what you suspect or what you feel. It's the only edge you have on a narcissist and they want you to distrust yourself. But your feelings are probably right and definitely valid. Besides, you know whether or not you dressed your own baby. I would get out, at the very least don't live with this guy.
First answer by Yinzer. Last edit by Nex. Contributor trust: 110 [recommend contributor]. Question popularity: 36 [recommend question]
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