When you bleach your hair you can relax it by, putting a special cream on it so it doesnt look so damaged, or condition the heck out of it with conditioner. I hope this helped :)
Hair's dead. You can't kill a dead thing. Deep inside the follicle it's alive but by the time you can see it, it's dead. Bleach will damage your hair. It's not a matter of if it's a matter of to what...