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How should you tell your mom that you are pregnant?In: Teen Pregnancy |
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Well, the same thing happened to me, and I solved it by just letting my mother find out herself. I was to scared to tell her.
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First be calm about it. Don't get scared. I'm about to have a baby. I'm so scared; I don't even know if I should tell my dad. But I am going to. Your mother should get to tell you what to do with your baby. So go to your mom and say, "Mom, I'm pregnant with the guy you thought I stopped seeing." If it happens to get messy, walk away and come back when she stops shouting. Moms have getting this news for centuries. They can handle it. Just don't you yell because it will mess up your pregnancy or something like that.
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First, remember that she is your mom and she loves you and only wants what is best for you. She will probably be mad at first and yell and maybe say some hurtful things, but give her time to cool down before you respond in a bad way. She will also be disappointed because she thought you knew better. The sooner you tell her the better and she can and will help you in at least some ways. She will find out in a few months for sure anyway. The sooner you tell her the better off you'll be, and it will be a lot of stress off of your back!
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Straight to the point. Say you have something important to tell her and that she may be very upset with you. Tell her you are very worried and want her advice.
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just tell her confidently and don't feel embarrassed she went through the same thing
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Your mother isn't going to be happy about you being pregnant, but, she was young once herself and she also has had children of course (you) and after she is over the shock I'm sure she'll come around and help the best she can. You are going to have to face it sooner or later so choose a quiet evening when there is just you and your mom and tell her. It's important that you see your doctor while being pregnant.
I wish you luck hon.
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Sit down calmly and just come out with it. If you have a good relationship with her everything will be ok and she'll be upset, but will support you anyway.
You need to understand that your mother loves you. She may be angry at first, maybe yell or lecture you, but she will be there for you. You need to step up and act like a young woman and tell her you made a big mistake and you need her help.
If you are fourteen years of age and are pregnant, it is best to tell your mom right away! (I am thirteen, and my mom has always told me to come straight out if I got pregnant.) Many young girls such as yourself may find themselves in your condition. To tell your mom, you simply request a private conversation with her. If I were you, I definitely wouldn't wait until your mom notices a bulgy belly! Anyways, calmly explain to her that you are with child, and you may wish to add whom the father is. Since you are only fourteen I cannot say that you would really be able to get married, but I highly doubt it. Is there a reason you got pregnant? Were you lost in a moment of passion, unaware that you were able to become pregnant, or (on a severe level) raped? Whatever the reason, your mother will want to know. Although you are quite young at fourteen to support a child the way an adult woman is able to, you SHOULD NOT HAVE AN ABORTION. Although I mean no offense, you kind of got yourself into this, and it is not right to take an unborn child's life. If you know anything about abortions, you may know that the doctors and/or surgeons call the procedure "removing the fetus", which sounds a lot better than "killing the unborn baby". Please tell your mother the truth. No matter how upst she may be, remember that this is the best option for you and your child. And you should also remember that you can easily put your baby up for adoption if you or your mother prefers! The baby will live a happy life, and you will be satisfied with knowing that your baby turned into a couple's dreams instead of a pile of dead and unborn cells. GOOD LUCK WITH TELLING YOUR MOM!!!!
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just be very sincere and tell her that what you are planning to do about it if you are planning to stay in school, if you want to keep it or not, if you plann on staying with the father of the baby. i was 15 when i got pregnant with my daughter trust me it gets alot easier after you tell her. it may be roug at first and she will be mad but by the time the baby comes you will be talking about names and and asking her questions about her pregnancies and what is normal and whats not. trust me it gets easier after you tell her and then you can start thinking of the long road ahead. CONGRADULATIONS and take care
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Just sit down with her in a very serious matter and tell her that your pregnant tell her what decision you have made about it be it your going through with the pregnancy abortion or adoption or keeping the child to raise yourself and talk to her through her reaction I was 19 when i got pregnant and had to tell my mom she wasn't happy at first because I am Italian and the father of my child my boyfriend still is Black and she doesn't agree with interracial relationships she told me she wanted nothing to do with me or the baby but she came around within a couple of weeks and now she can't get enough of her grandson so good luck and Congratualtions your gonna be a mommy and it's the best feeling in the world GOD BLESS!!!
you dont! she figures it out and she comes to you. she already knows by the way you act. she was pregnant to so she should know. if not then when youre ready (and before you get your "big belly bump") tell her
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