How do you tell a girl how you feel about her even if she's in a relationship?

Answer 1

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• I think yes. Girls LOVE to be told how amazing they are, and having guys like you is one of the best things ever for girls. She might act weird out, but most girls love be adored.
• I think that you should be friends with her, like go shopping and compliments are the key!
• You want to tell her in the most comfortable way. You want to look confident, but not overly confident because that makes you look

  obnoxious. Tell her privately instead of out in front of her friends.

• It depends if she is seeing someone, like if she's engaged or just dating. If she is just dating it will be a lot easier.
• If it is a serious relationship, I say no, you don't want to put her in an awkward position, if it is not as serious, go for it.
• You should obviously tell her! I'm a girl and if you tell her that you like her, she might think about you more and begin to have feelings for you instead of the one she's dating.
• No, don't tell a girl you like her if she is in a relationship. It will only make it harder for her to stay with the guy she is dating. Remember, your feelings doesn't matter unless she is single. If she is taken, do not try it. It will only make your relationship with her harder. If she breaks up with her current boyfriend and goes out with you, she will feel bad for breaking someone's heart. And then she might break up with you because she can't bear to think of what she has done. It happened to me once, that's why I'm saying let the girl be happy with who she has, if they break up then go for it.
• Absolutely! She may have never thought of you that way, so even if she IS in a relationship, knowing your strong feelings for her, she may reconsider. Or the other way around.
• Tell her, but be prepared to take whatever she says as a man. Are you really willing to make her sacrifice her relationship with the person she's with? She might really love this guy and you're going to end up messing everything up for her. Only tell her if you have no other options and you think you might have a chance with her.
• It depends. If you two are friends, then definitely NOT! It will screw up your friendship, not to mention her boyfriend could get annoyed! Think twice if you want to screw things up.
• I wouldn't because it would only confuse her!
• Yeah, but only if you are sure you feel like doing it. Make sure you aren't a punk because if she likes you too and she breaks up with her boyfriend for you, he may want to fight you for it. It's a good thing to do because if she and her boyfriend have a fight and she breaks up with him she could think of you and say it's time to try new things and go out with you.
• I'm a girl and no matter what the situation is, I think you should definitely tell her how you feel because she could feel the same way about you! Also, she will feel special and once you let her know how you feel there will be a huge wait lifted off your shoulders. But once you tell her, give her a little time to adjust. Don't push her, stay friends with her and show her you'll always be there for her no matter what.
• Yes, you should. It is not good to keep your feelings bundled up in your chest. If you give her time after you tell her, she could realize that she loves you back.
• It's worth a try. Go for it.
• Go for it. If she turns you down, she is not someone you should waste your time on.
• Yes, however only if you realize that you can't have her and also make it clear that you are not expecting her to have feelings for you and that you want her to stay with the one she is with. Don't ever take another man's girl.
• I say YES! I have experience with this, I liked a guy but he was my best friend so I didn't want to tell him because I thought it would hurt our friendship. So, I did my best not like him and began liking someone else and got over him. Then I started dating this other guy and 2 days later my best friend told me he liked me and now we're dating and it's been 7 months. So yes, absolutely yes! She might feel the same way, but there's also the option of her not feeling that way and getting totally freaked out. Either way, you should take the risk because it might turn out better than you think it will.
• I say NO. She will be very confused and may get angry at you for confusing her. Just continue to stick by her side, but don't be too close or get into trouble with her boyfriend. The second you hate on him, she'll start to hate on YOU.
• You can probably just talk to her on MSN about it or message her on Facebook. If you don't have either of them, get a friend to tell her but a friend that you know isn't goofy and the girl will believe them.
• I say yes. You never know, maybe she has the same feelings and she wants to be with you as much as you want to be with her. Taking a risk is apart of living. you cant be happy until you find that special someone.
• It probably isn't a good idea, the two times you would have this possibility is if the girls relationship is going well or going bad. If its going

  Badly... Then it is not a good idea, it will give the girl more stress, this is not good and can do one of a few things. it can make her drift away from you, it can make her drift away from her Boyfriend or it can make her use you to get to them. NONE of which you want, they can all hurt you BOTH. If it's going well... Then she is not looking for a relationship, it can make the current boyfriend defensive and eventually make them drift apart, she will blame you, not good. Or it can make her stop liking her boyfriend and this is, somewhat good for you, but she may get called ... lets say nasty names and you don't want this for her. The thing you must do if you truly like/love this girl is be there for her, whatever situation she is in.

• I say definitely. She might remind you that she is in a relationship. She might just want to be friends. But there is always the chance that she likes you. Don't let that chance pass you by.

Answer 2

DEFINITELY NOT. first of all, you're being shady and cock-blocking her boyfriend. second of all, she likes her boyfriend so its not like she is just going to suddenly dump him and go for you. thirdly, if you tell he..where is that going to get you? nowhere. it might even make things awkward between you guys. Wait until she is single to make any moves on her and tell her you like her. Its fine to flirt, but as long as shes taken, never flat out tell her you like her. big mistake.

Answer 3

Aditional details : I dated this girl about 4 months ago. After we broke up we still talked alot. One day when we were talking she asked me if I had liked anyone new and at the time I still liked her but I was scared that she didn't like me so said that I liked another girl even though I didnt. Later on I found out that she still did like me so I screwed up pretty bad. After that every time we saw each other it was akward and we grew apart. After about two weeks of no contact over the x-max break I started to feel stronger feelings for her. Now that were back in school we talk alot and we flirt almost everyday even though she has a boyfriend. Now that the semester is almost over and I won't have any classes with her next semester I feel like I should tell her how I feel even though she has a boyfriend?

Answer 4

How would than make you feel if you were the boyfriend and some guy was telling your girl friend that...i am not going to tell you yes or no, but you should think about that and then make a decision.

Answer 5

u dont, u wait until she breaks up

unless its getting serious,

then u tell her and hope for the best

*If she is in a serious relationship with someone else then dont bother telling her,she is in that relationship because she has feelings for that person,and will most likely let you down...wait till she is single and then tell her....

*Also you have to consider that if you tell her how you feel will she then go and tell her partner everything you said to her...which for you could in some cases cause her partner to come and have a very serious talk with you that may turn physical....

Answer 6

Yes, you should definitely tell her especially if she shows that she's interested in you. She would appreciate the honesty and that you made the first move, but just make sure you do it right.

Answer 7

honestly you don't if you're a decent person.

Answer 8

yes no never know she might like you more than she likes you

Answer 9

It is probably not a good idea, especially if the love is not reciprocated.