If you want a long-distance commitment from a guy will you scare him away by letting him know that you only want to date him? |
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Long Distance Commitment
It depends on the guy, but if it's long distance, then I wouldn't commit to a relationship. Date other guys, and when you can, date him. Make sure he understands and be completely honest. When you have the opportunity to spend a lot of time together, then you can decide whether or not to be committed.
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I totally know how you feel because I am in the same situation right now! It depends on how far the distance is. Like is it only a couple of hours? If so then I would so go for it. Men are such wimps and afraid of commitment. Sometimes men will make a commitment in their hearts and won't really say that they are comitted because it has such a negative connotation and he could be worried that either you will find someone else better than him or that you will end up hurting him. But it's very possible that he is committed in his heart and doesn't even see other women because every time he does they will somehow remind him of you because you are on his brain all the time. I say just be patient with him and casually bring things up about what is going on and really find out how he feels toward you and his ideas of what make a good relationship and slowly easy him into the idea of commitment. Guys are frightened of it. But if they really really care for you, the decision won't be hard for them. Just make sure that it doesn't seem like you are pushing them into anything because guys hate this.
Good Luck and I hope this helps in some way!:)
First answer by Leslie. Last edit by Orbitial11. Contributor trust: 8 [recommend contributor]. Question popularity: 75 [recommend question]
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