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If you want a second chance with your ex when is the right time to pursue this after being separated after a messy breakup and what is the best way to retrieve a lover and what do you say to them?
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There are no second chances with exes. You haven't mentioned the reason for your break-up.If it was some kind of misunderstanding then may be you can give it slow and gradual start.But then hey,mature people do not break-up over misunderstandings.And if he had cheated on you then just forget it for he isn't gonna change.And usually,men tend to take you for granted if you go back to them. Remember in life never look back on any decision that you have made.You have stick to your convictions.And you need to move on in life.If you had a break-up,I am sure you must have had some solid reasons to go ahead with it.

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Thank you for your input. I really want to believe that his indiscretions merit no energy on my part. I just miss his friendship and am shocked that he moved on so quickly. (He started talking to someone one month before we officially broke up...now I know they've been sleeping together, too.)(We were living together for two years and have known each other since high school.) It's hard to remember the reasons I didn't want to be with him when someone else is involved. I am sick from all of this. Physically and emotionally. I cut off all communication a few days ago (after he asked me to "give him some space to take care of it" and then didn't call) but it was probably one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. Now I'm struggling with deciding whether to send the "other woman" a letter outlining our relationship and his faults. I wish I could be stronger. It's very, very hard.

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Leave the other woman alone. She'll get hers because a dog never changes his spots. More importantly, leave him alone. You don't want him to serve you up this same situation with some added twists two more years down the line and you have to help him pay child support for a new mistress because "the condom broke".

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