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  • Sounds like he could be bipolar (Manic/depresive). And this is a form of abuse to you. If he has this or something else, then he can't really help it, but it's still not healthy for you or him. You should both go to counseling, couples and on your own.
  • Sounds like you're going out with my ex-fiance. From total and utter adoration complete with spoiling me by giving me foot massages to the other extreme of literally pulling away from me physically, answering me curtly and giving me the silent treatment if I'd 'upset him'. You need to get away because it is NOT going to change. The only truth you need to face is the fact that a leopard doesn't change his spots. You're wasting your time and the opportunity for God to bring a man who speaks the truth in love into your life who will truly respect and adore you by not being easily irritated, selfish, jealous, and mean-spirited. You deserve the best.
  • Abusers typically abruptly and inexplicably alternate between moods, attitudes, and modes of interpersonal interaction.
  • By creating an unpredictable and unstable environment, they strengthen their control over their victims and often create a shared psychosis.
  • What's going on is that he is abusive. He could be bipolar or borderline, two disorders that have extreme mood changes- Bipolar disorder over longer periods of time, and borderline over hours, or shorter extensions of time. You should get out, because it really isn't healthy.
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Q: If your boyfriend has wild mood fluctuations alternating between affection and painful statements in the name of 'being able to face the truth' what is going on?
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