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Abusive and controlling. He needs to get some help. That is not a healthy relationship. One person should never be the parent. Both partners are equals. If you don't think he'll get help, or if you ask and he refuses, you need to leave him. It's not healthy to live that way. It will probably just get worse and could turn into physical abuse.

By transforming you into "his child", your boyfriend is avoiding adult, mature intimacy - while maintaining absolute control over you. Both are abusive behaviors.

Yes. He's being controlling and establishing power over you.

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Q: If your boyfriend says you are his child and so his decisions will always supersede yours for your own good is this abusive?
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