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The first thing is to put in place a plan to keep the children safe. Someone who physically abuses others has deep seated problems which should be addressed. Usually, it is better to keep the family together as usually (not always) separation causes more problems than it solves. I would suggest that the wife has some form of psychotherapy to help get to the root of why she physically abuses children. It may be wise at this point to temporarily separate while her painful issues are being dealt with. As she gains more insight into her issues, family therapy may help. There are also support groups for abusers as well as for the abused. The long and the short of it is that there are no quick and easy solutions. Treatment will take time and will be painful for everyone involved. Everyone involved will need support and the children will need to be protected and kept safe. It won't be easy but I hope it will be worth it. If all of the above is given a fair trial and it fails, you may have to consider divorce as a last resort. Be aware though that what attracted you to her in the first place may cause you to be attracted to someone else who has the same characteristics and problems. Ironically, you can marry the 'same person' over and over. Best of luck to you all.

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