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Im 14 and your boyfriend wants you to get pregnant so you can have a child im scared to tell him no and you dont think im ready for a child he is 14 too what should you do?
Crabbyabby1
First of all it is illegal in most western countries to have sexual intercourse at 14.
It is doubtful any 14 year old is able to support a child, either financially or emotionally.
Tell him you are not ready for children.
I'm not going to take away the other answer as it might have helped you, but i know what it is like to be in your situation.
i was 14, and my boyfriend was 14 too.
we was having a heart to heart and then he started talking about children, and how he wanted to have children already. he completely freaked me out, and i didn't really know what to say.
i thought about things for a bit and asked myself if i was really ready for a baby- sure, they're adorable and cute and everything, but would i really be able to cope with a new baby at my age? how would i be able to pay for the baby and its needs? would my boyfriend stick with me?
if the answer to the last question is yes then he should stick with you and wait until you're BOTH ready to be responsible for a baby.
it seems like your boyfriend hasn't really thought about the consequences of having a baby, and if i am right, then talk to him about your future together, and how and when you see your children as a part of that.
talk to him about the money side of things- how would you be able to afford having a baby
talk to him about your parents- would they stand by you, or would they disown you?
talk about the baby's interests- would they really have the best start in life if its parents are literally just kids themselves?
i hope this helped (:
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