Im 14 years old and im currently dating a 18 year old is that safe for me to do. he isn't pressuring me to do anything i don't want to do. he is wating until im ready to do stuff that he wants to do.?

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if you are 18 and want to date a 14 yr old girl, first you must concider her inmaturity and how easy it would be for you to persuade her to see things your way because of the fact of looking good to her peers because an 18 yr old is interested in her and also doing whatever it takes to keep you as a boyfriend. i believe you should go to her parents and ask their permission to date their daughter. that shows not only respect for her but for her parents position of athority because she's under age. in some states she's concidered jail bate. but if the parents are gracious enough to let you date her it would be better to date in group settings and public places where temptation can't get the best. stay away from drinking parties don't entice her to do grown up things that she and her body aren't mature enough to go through. show her respect by understanding her feelings if she says no she means no. but if for some reason she's afraid to say no then you need again to respect her tender age and be man enough to not allow things to get out of hand or go too far. don't persuade her to drink alcohol, have sex, party with drugs, take her out alone in a car, make sure when planning a date you do nice things for her like buying her nice dinners in nice resturants not just fast food. take her to decent movies that are as sex free as possible. it's probably better to get parental advice of what her parents would like and be sincere because I'm a parent and see right through deception. remember you have someones daughter that they love very much in your care, then you should treat as an equal but not as a grown woman either because she's still a child and if you were to come to me wanting to date my 14 yr old the answer would be a flat NO. but not all parents have or live the same values when it comes to what age they allow or the kind of dating they allow for their teens. I'm a mom my kids are all grown and gone. but i didn't allow my youngest to date intimately till she was 16 or 17. she was allowed to go to parties, picnics, swimming, and various other activities with friends she didn't seem to have an interest in dating boys but she had male friends as buddies. her best friend was gay he was flat out rude but she enjoyed his company and i knew she was safe with him. she had male friends of various colors creeds and faiths and i never rejected any of them because they came from good families and i trusted her judgment.

AnswerNo, wait until she is 18 or older. AnswerNO you are to old for her and she needs to be a child why are you interrested in a 14 year old anyways??? How about finding someone your own age not a child...AnswerYou already know the answer to this question! You are considered an adult and a 14 year old is a child! It is also called, "Statutory Rape." This child is too young to know what he or she wants. Move on and start dating someone your own age.