Im pregnant and not ready to have a baby?

Answer 1

First of all, breathe. Give yourself a moment or longer to calm yourself down so you can think rationally about the various options you have. It isn't necessarily about having options but the reality of the fact that most people aren't ready to have children when they do become pregnant. Anyone who thinks they are 100% ready is obviously a first time parent. You made a choice to have sex and pregnancy is one possibly consequence. You can either view this event as an unexpected gift or as a tragedy for your good life. You have many choices: seek guidance from a counselor, pastor, mature friend (not all friends are wise); talk to your dr or go to a free clinic if you do not have insurance and they can help you understand the body changes; get advice from a trusted person as to how you can keep the baby and care for it should you keep it; consider caring for the baby and giving it to a loving couple who can give it a better life; or even abortion (which I hope is your last option).

Answer 2

I don't know your details or attitude to becoming a mother or your circumstances. All I can say is that after all the trials and tribulations of arriving at the birth of your son or daughter, hopefully, your maternal instinct will kick in. Believe me, holding a new born baby that you have created is an emotional roller-coaster that can cause the baby to be either rejected or to be the fulfilment of your life. Believe me, no new parent is ever ready for the tremendous joy and responsibility a baby can bring. Take things as they come.