"Pagan" is a word with extremely broad connotations and encompasses a huge number of otherwise-unrelated religious practices. Depending on the tradition, she might. Some traditions, such as Dianic Wicca, are very feminist in their orientation and may frown on such a practice. The "pagan" ritual of handfasting (marraige) is merely a promise that for a year, you will remain faithfully to that person's wife/husband. Every year and 1 day, the handfasting is either renewed or not. Pagans do not require a woman to legally adopt her husband's name after the ritual. She may choose to, she (or they both) may choose to hyphenate their names or adopt a new one together. Or she may continue using her maiden or legally chosen name. There are no hard and fast rules.
As for the Ritual of handfasting... It is performed before a High Priestess &/or High Priest who may or may not be empowered by the "State" to perform "legal" marriages. A handfasting may as stated above be for the "year & a day" (this is a Pagan deffinision of a year the "day" in question is Samhain - believed to be a day outside of time. It does not mean your anniversary progressively gets a day later per year) OR for "as long as the love shall last". Both Rituals may be disolved at the end of the term. A Correction to the above A Pagan handfasting is a ceremony which is personal to the two people getting married. As opposed to what is suggested, there are no "rules" regarding who performs it, or the length of time for which the vows are made. The celebrant may be a "High Priest / Priestess", or it may be a friend, or family member of those getting handfasted, or the couple may choose to act as their own celebrants. The comment about being empowered by the state is relevant only to the USA. In many other countries a Pagan handfasting can not be a legal marriage (a source of much annoyance to Pagans who have to go through two ceremonies!). The length may be "for a year and a day", it may be "for as long as love will last", it may be "for this life", it may be for whatever length of time the couple decide is appropriate.
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NO! unless the girl is stupid enough to take you back.
Traditionally yes, however it is growing more and more common for a woman to add her husbands name, for both spouses to take the woman's maiden name or for both spouses to add their spouse name to their own. It should not be taken for granted that a wife's family name is the same as her husbands, especially among younger couples.
You go down to Social security with your card and marriage license and they will change your name to your married name. Next step is the driver license. Go to the DMV and change it. Next to the bank and other places where you need to change your name. This will take you a few days before you have gone where you need to.
My husband and I are executors of a will and want to cancel this.
marriage
No, she cannot do that. The deceased wife's name will be removed by the executor upon the presentation of a death certificate. Depending on the law, the wife may be automatically assumed to be on the deed whether it is physically there or not.
No she will have to take your permission first.
The same as if she is not married - Chinese tend not to take their husbands last name when they marry.
Sandra's last name has not changed. She did not take her husbands last name. her "Maiden Name" and last name now are both Rinomato
Take your marriage licence with you.
When a woman marries, in order to legally take her husbands last name, she needs to get a copy of her marriage certificate, go to the SS office, wait hours upon hours to change her last name. Then it's off to the DMV, home to call every credit card company, insurance co, stock co, etc. Banking info must be changed in person but only after you have received your new ID. or You could just wait for your drivers licence renewal to come up, tell them your were married provide a certificate and let them hyphenate your name. Bottom line, it's easier.