In general, married gay men refer to each other as husbands (i.e., two husbands and no wife). Married lesbians refer to each other as wives (i.e., two wives and no husband). You can sometimes hear people who are unsure about the appropriate vocabulary use words like "partner" or "spouse." If a man wants to be called a wife, or a woman wants to be called a husband, then that is their prerogative. However, identifying yourself as belonging to the opposite gender is a characteristic of a transgendered person, not a gay person. In that sense, altering the gender-specific vocabulary is an issue separate from same-sex marriage.
yes
If she is still married to her 1st husband then her second marriage to you is illegal and you are NOT married.
No, the baby is not considered your husbands. (If you are sure that the baby was because of someone else, and not your husband.)
Yes, she is still his wife.
If your marriage was not legal because your husband was still married (in which care your husband committed the crime of bigamy), then you can simply go back to using your maiden name (you can't get divorced as you were never legally married).
Not if the husband is still living. If he is deceased, the executor can obtain the records.
His second marriage is not valid.
Not if he is still legally married to you.
Yes, especially if the marriage is recent and the husband is going to be in jail for a long time or has committed a felony.
Yes! If she has a state-funded insurance also, the husband's coverage will be secondary.
Yes, if your husband has a bankruptcy before he got married it will still effect his credit.
yes, she did. Her whole life, she has had 3 husbands. she still has one. (not really cause she's dead so.............)