Is a guy using you if he asks about sex a lot after dating on and off for six years?

Is He Using Me After Dating Six Years And We Have On And Off Sex?

Yes he is using you for sex and I think you know that. Six years is a long time and either you have a sex life or you don't. You can't be in love or sex wouldn't be a problem.

• Since this is under teen dating, I am going to say.....YES!!! Honey, if the guy even mentions sex, six years or not, you say NO. Especially if the relationship is on and off. This suggests that the guy can't seem to be committed to anything (either that, or you can't), but either way, if worst comes to worst, you will be all alone stuck with a kid. Nobody deserves that. At least not in their teen years.

• If he's only talking about sex, and judging by your question you two aren't having sex yet, I'd think you're abusing HIM. Really, I think you two are sexually mismatched with your low to no sex drive and his possibly high sex drive. I've read of married people who are so sexually mismatched it causes such aggravation they get divorced. I wonder why they got married in the first place. Maybe they're those old-fashioned people who don't have sex before marriage and pretend their sex drives will be automatically equal upon marriage. I was sort of in an abusive relationship like yours for about seven years. I'm a normal guy when it comes to sex and she kept me sexually deprived over the years, and often lied to me including telling me I'm her boyfriend, yet she never wanted to meet me away from where she worked as an exotic dancer. Well I'm a loser anyway, a nice guy, age 47, on social assistance, and probably only average looking. So I was happy for some attention from her. But if I was a somebody, I would despise being in a non-sexual relationship for 6 years.
  

• Please don't. If you guys are on and off dating that means that there's been the off- that means that neither of you aren't mature enough for that yet and trust me, he's not going to have the emotional attachment you will afterwards.
  

• You had better wait until you get married to have sex. If your in your mid teen years this is a bad situation you are in. I would break up with him for good and forget about him.

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