Perhaps the question should be "Are you alright with the relationship?" If you are happy and things are going well, it is irrelevant what others think. However, if you feel you are at some level being used by the other person, I would suggest that you sit down with them and have a honest talk about what you each need and want from the relationship, about what your future might be together, that sort of thing.
AnswerWhat better reason for love than love itself? This means that as long as you love your partner, he will love you. This also means that theoretically, if you suddenly stopped loving your partner, he'd just as suddenly stop loving you. Very convinient. In real life however, feelings at least linger on or there's even a dramatic short-term increase if their basis is destroyed. AnswerIt`s totally alright, but only depending on certain things. If this person is younger and has a relation to you like a younger brother/sister, then it seems perfectly fine: A part of loving someone is to watch over them. But if it`s in a different way, then I recommend being very cautious with what you do. It`s alright, but just be EXTREMELY cautious. If you give a lot more than you receive...It's not love - its fulfilling psychological needs
[Comment: love MEANS fulfilling psychological needs, or what is love to you - a bank cheque? More precisely, love's a feeling that can have any number of causes, including unhealthy ones. That doesn't change that it IS love. Fulfilling needs of any kind is both a cause and a consequence of love.]
and that never ends well with two people. Get out of this relationship fast!
she used to be the same way...but now she has changed a little. at first she use to tell i love u coz ur this...that..etc..etc... now its just outright...i love u coz u love me so much n take care of me so well.
[Comment: that sounds like she's tired of thinking of reasons, and you're constantly asking "Why do you love me?", which is a very difficult question to answer. Just try it yourself: Why do YOU love HER?
You just do. Just be happy that she does as well.]
we dont even talk much...never have...
[Comment: If this bothers you, then start talking! It seems to me you translate "i love u coz u love me" to "i don't really love you". You can start with this issue.]
btw...another questions...can a couple survive if they dont have any common hobbies ? and can a couple survive if the 2 people involved are totally opposite in nature ? [Comment: post these questions separately, not in here]
AnswerI can only speak from personal experience. I have been married for 35 years. We love each other differently than when we first began. We had almost nothing in common. We have developed mutual interests over the years, but still enjoy separate activities. He loves rock and roll, I love Opera. He's a couch potato, I am a marathon runner (of sorts). He loves watching WWF, I think it's "goofy." I'm an avid reader and have hundreds of books, he thinks if you read it what's the point in keeping it. And so on, and so on... I believe opposites do indeed attract and in many cases "stick." It sounds like your significant other cares for you very much and appreciates what you do for her. Perhaps you are misunderstanding what she is trying to say. I think you will be just fine. :) PAXthis how i would said it, if it was me i would take my time and dont go fast becaus going fast would cause alot of problems and just take your time and see he over react and if he acting all nice then he's a good man and if he's acting like he dont want to have fun and acting all funny then he's not a good man
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Yes, it is alright! Sooner or later love is learn.
In my opinion, you have to be careful with this situation. It's kind of like walking on thin ice. You want to make sure that a person loves you for you, and not your money or what you give them. Sometimes, the other person begins to then expect these things from you and take it for granted. They might use you and your finances to help them when in a tough situation and then leave you when in their world, everything's alright. You want to make sure this doesn't happen so that they don't cheat you.
If you are Okay with it then it is fine. But if you are not okay with it. You should make it clear with that person.
IF he is not doesnt act like he normally do when he around you than he is confued on wearther or not he loves because you and him could of had a tough relationship and he might be seeing whats out there to see.But there is always a way you can tell someone loves you
someone who loves to be in relationships like 24/7
then you have a long distance relationship.
He could be saying that he loves you as a friend. Or that he loves you but doesn't want to be in a relationship just yet. Or it could be that he is scared to "settle down" with someone right not. He might not be ready
because he loves you!
Probably not. He is not that into you. You want someone who is completely in love with you, not someone you had to drag back into the relationship. Stay friends, but don't expect anything to blossom.
Well just because they are somebody else in the homecoming doesn't mean that they are with them in relationship terms. but if they are, the person below is right. Move on. There are plenty of fish in the pond.
Because that was his first love so he still loves her ands wants her to be alright you get what I am saying
You are obviously a pretty girl but a relationship isn't about looks. Relationship is about having a good personality. Ask him why he loves you if he says because your pretty you can't stay with him. You will need to find someone that loves you for your personality you will last much longer. Hope I helped
If she loves you then she shouldn't be that bothered about breaking his heart. I know it's a horrible feeling when you know you've really hurt someone, but if she knows the relationship isn't working because she loves you, then it has to be done.
It's when someone loves someone who does not have the same feelings for them but they are still in a relationship. Or current state of labeled love.
I would end the relationship because someone that really loves you would not put your well-being at risk, but would do everything they can to help protect you.