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On my opinion, I think it is not. Marriage is not just being compatible with each other. That was the biggest mistake I ever did. I thought we were so much compatible...then today my marriage is over.

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Personally, You need to think about the fact that you are going to spend the rest of their life with you i suppose if you really like her and she loves you then you should go ahead but don't just marry her as guilt thing. If you honestly like her and you are willing to make that commitment then my hat is of to you.

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You should never marry someone unless you love them and are ready to to spend the rest of your life with them. yeah divorce is always an option if it dosent work out but do you really want to go through that big of deal? Just wait and see if this is the person for you, you don't want to get married too soon to the wrong person, what if you find a person that you are more compatible with?

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I feel,infact i know that we should not choose to be with a person merely because of love. Understanding and compatibility play a key role in a happy married life. If you have a great comfort level with someone,you are bound to love that person n hence be happy.

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It's okay if he truly loves you but if not. DOn't dare to marry that man you'll suffer.

No couples do marry for love. They marry for lust or companionship, but not for love.

I spoke on this with a Rabbi once, as he was riding in my taxi.

First off, for those in their younger years, love is not an emotion as it is a desire. The human brain does not yet have the conceptual ability to understand and truly feel love until well into the 20s. Prior to that time, what you are feeling is the desires of youth. The same desires that drove the need to have that latest toy, your driver's license, and your first car. The difference is, as an adolescent, hormonal changes get thrown into the mix. Also added in is that magical date on the calendar that you become a LEGAL adult. But, you're not yet a physical or emotional adult, and as such, what a teen feels is desire, and not love.

Even an adult cannot feel this, for love is not instantaneous. It is a seed that grows over time, when two people commit to each other the goal of becoming one person. A symbiotic relationship. From him the woman draws strength and logic. From her, the man draws emotion and compassion. This is not something that happens overnight, or even in a few months. It can take years, provided the right beginnings are met.

There is clear statistical evidence that the couples who live together, or with someone else, and/or are married prior to age 24 make up 85% of all breakups and divorces. This is the point when a female reaches full maturity and can understands what love is. In actuality, she will be in love with her children, before she is truly in love with their father. The woman is the anchor to the ship that is man.

The symbiotic relationship even extends beyond the emotional needs. The exchange of fluids during intercourse delivers chemicals that both the male and female body needs. In males, it affects their immune system. In females, it affects the strength of the uterus, improving the ability to carry a baby. Found that one out just the other day on the Discovery Health Channel. As such, man and woman are meant to be together. But, not multiple men and women, as their bodies are adapting to each other. Multiple partners disrupts this in that the genetic makeup of the chemicals contained within semen and vaginal fluids are specific to the individual. Multiple partners has the body trying to readapt to every new contribution.

All this together is what LOVE is.

It's when your heart and your spouse's is one.

It's when your bodies have adapted to each other.

It's when you can stand as one again all challengers, there is love.

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NEVER, EVER Settle! Especially if you plan on having children with this person. Your relationship will directly influence them.

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OMG now I see why there are so many divorces in America!!! If all these people are marrying because they are "compatible" why do more than 50% (I think it's 50 or more at least) getting divorced??? Yes, compatability needs to be there but LOVE needs to be there too!!!!! I've been around for a while (let's just say I'm not a teenager). I've worked in a psychologist's office and I have worked in a family law office and I see and know what is going on with marriages. Even "compatible" people have the rocky roads, the rough times and if the love is not there they are NOT GOING TO MAKE IT!!! THERE MUST BE LOVE. Real love. Not this "learn to love" stuff!

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Are you truly compatible if you are not in love? Two people getting along is not a relationship that is built for marraige. As long as one person in the marraige is not in love there will always be an oportunity for "something better" to come along. If you have to ask this question, you do not have enough life experience to get married. You cannot gain this knowledge it is earned.

Well love that doesn't exist cant disappear.

Well honestly if you don't love them then its honestly your decision to choose or not but In My opinion I would Keep Searching But If you feel that they are the right one then yes if you don't then tell them the truth do not hide it, i believe the truth gets you further in life :

In my opinion i also think its not ok, i think you should love them for who they are not just like them, i think to last you need to love them, and you will go through your life not loving them ... its also not right marrying someone you truley don't love.

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I think divorce is a horrible thing and honestly no one should have to go through it, but the idea of a possible divorce should not be the only reason why you should not marry someone you are just compatible with. Doing so would cause you to miss out on actually finding true love. Love is one of the most amazing things one can ever experience. Like I said before divorce is a horrible thing but that can never compare to never experiencing true love.

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