Is it possible for a guy to be attracted to you if he does not seem nervous around you?

Yes, it's possible for a guy to like you even if he isn't nervous around you. Some guys just don't get nervous when they like a girl. Or they are nervous, but he is just good at hiding it.

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Nervousness is not an accurate indication of whether someone likes you or not.

Someone who does act nervous around you could mean he likes you, or it could be that he simply is uncomfortable around you. Maybe he just gets nervous around girls in general, or he could just be poorly socialized or shy and would be nervous around anyone.

Some guys are just naturally cool and confident even when they are near a girl they are attracted to; and some guys act like real jerks, bragging, showing off -- I think this is like a defense mechanism --when they are around someone they like. Keep in mind that even the cutest guys are still just people like anyone else.

I'd say better indicators would be how comfortable a guy is when he's around you, if he treats you differently or not when other people (his friends) are around, whether he treats you like one of the guys or if he treats you with more respect.

Body language can be very enlightening and surprisingly accurate. Consider learning a little about it. You can do a search on the Internet for sites about reading or understanding body language cues or you can pick up a book - usually in either the psychology section or the relationships section - at most book stores. Just don't forget that everyone is different and that picking up on body language cues takes practice. A certain degree of familiarity with your 'subject' doesn't hurt either.

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Yes its possible for a guy to like you even if he doesn't act nervous around you. I have a lot of friends who are friends with the girls they wish were their girlfriends, and they don't act nervous. If you like this guy, then you should try hinting to him how you feel or if you aren't shy, you could just straight ask him. Though that might endanger any friendship you might have with him.

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Sure it is. Ask me, I'm the expert on whoever I'm in love with being the last one to know. The woman I'm married to was shocked to find out I was in love with her all along. I didn't act nervous or anything like that. Nobody would ever have suspected it in a million years except maybe her ex who naturally still being with her at that point would have an eye for it.

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Of course it is. It just depends on the guy is all.

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I know what you mean by this question! Almost every guy that's ever liked me seemed nervous around me at some point. Even my boyfriend, who didn't seem that nervous on our first date, seemed EXTREMELY nervous when he asked me out :) But I know some guys who are honestly better at hiding their nervousness. Other guys are so shy, on the other end, that they practically avoid you to hide their nervousness. So yes, I think it's possible for a guy to be attracted to you if he doesn't seem nervous, but most of the time you can tell that they're nervous.

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OF COURSE!! To me, thats a good thing that he's NOT nervous around you, and he can just be himself. I've been with my girlfriend for months now, and we can just have fun and be ourselvess!! If you're not yourself, then, how could you be attracted to their personality? Hah, one time, I dated someone I thought I could love forever, but, she wasn't my type. Hahaha.

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Yes, plenty of guys spend a majority of their free time in the bathroom with their good friend "lefty" and so by the time they're actually NEAR their object of desire, the sexual tension is no longer there.

Or they're putting up a VERY good front and/or you can't read their nervous signals very well.

But yes, guys can be attracted to you without appearing nervous. You just don't see the dirty, dirty thoughts in his head when he's around you!

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Yes! Let me tell you, I REALLY like this girl in my class at school, but I don't get nervous when I talk to her. She's my friend, and I don't know, but I am a bit apprehensive about telling her that I like her for fear that it will mess up our friendship.

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Yes.

But ask him what kinds of girls he likes and he might get a bit more nervous.

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It has little to do with "Mr. Lefty". It is about confidence in one self and/or in the subject of appreciation. It is an indicative that he's willing to give it all to the relation or not.
If he is assured as a friend, he is not considering a step forward. If he's making a step forward it is one of to things: one, he's sure of the outcome and two, he does not care about the outcome (Note: I'm not discarding anything written before)

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