Is it unusual that your fiance looks at porn on the internet almost every day when you are not around?

Men are visual creatures and have been looking at the nude body for centuries. It is not an addiction, or a bad thing. If a man is looking at porn, he is likely filling a need that is not being fulfilled in another way. For instance a man may look at porn due to a lack of sex or a visually appealing woman. Porn will only destroy a relationship if one person does not accept it as normal. If you have a problem with your man looking at porn, talk to him about it but also make sure his needs are fulfilled both visually and physically.

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Listen, my boyfriend looks at porn everyday when I'm not around. It's not a horrible thing. It's actually a good thing if you think about it. He's not out sleeping around with people and as long as it's not interfering with your sex life, why should there be worries? If it bothers you that much then talk to him. Maybe he'll simmer it down, telling him to quit cold turkey would be kind of bossy and I don't think any man wants a nagging housewife.

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Well, everyday is a bit much, but a lot of men do it everyday or less often. If it bothers you, you need to sit down with him and talk about it. Maybe you can come up with a compromise. The only harm is if him looking at it everyday bothers you or is interfering with your sex life. Otherwise, it's just pictures, what's the big deal? I wouldn't say that the majority of men look at porn everyday, but the majority of men look at porn often.

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If it bothers you, ask that he not tell you about his porn use, or have pornographic materials laying around where you can find them.

Some guys look at porn everyday, some do not. It's only a problem if they would rather look at porn than have sex with you when you are around and interested.

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Most men are visually driven. You need to provide him with an alternative, make him want to look at you more than the porn. Give him pictures of you to look at instead.

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Yes, I think its pretty common...unfortunately

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Porn is an addiction, plain and simple. It's disrespective to you and to women, you could categorize it as a way of cheating. I think there was a show about this on Dr. Phil. If he loves you this is something that has to stop

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Yes, it is. Porn is very dangerous to people and relationships. I would recommend talking to them straight out and putting an end to it if you can.

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Lusting after someone is a sin in the Bible. Lusting means wanting them in your heart, not necessarily having sex with them. If a man can't be true to you in his heart, he is not going to be true to any other way.

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We just watch porn as our girlfriend doesn't satifies our needs. A normal boy wants to have sex at least one times a day. You should be happy that we are not having sex with other girls to satisfy our sexual needs.