Is it weird to be a boy and masturbate to gay porn but not want to be gay and be not attracted to men?

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I used to do the same thing. I never actually thought I was gay, but now I know I am. I nsweram 16 and have been out for about two years now. At first I said I was bi, but that was just part of the coming out process.

You never know what may happen, though. The human mind is an amazing thing. You could be gay, you could be straight, or you could be bi. You'll figure it out eventually.

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I find it interesting that you are not attracted to men but you masturbate to gay porn. You must have some sort of attraction to men if you prefer gay porn rather than straight. I found myself in the same place as you however, at first I did not want to be gay but today I could care less about what people think. It's pathetic that it is 2008 and the minority is still being looked down upon. Do not be afraid to tell someone if you are gay, the longer you wait the harder it will become. I am 15 and it was difficult for me but I feel so much better now that I am no longer holding in a secret.

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I agree with the answeres above however, it could also be a phase beacuse how are you sure that youre really not gay. If you strongly feel attracted to gay porn, it is likely you are gay but there is nothing to be ashame of. Everyone is allowed to live their live as they please with out hidding themselfs.

It is not uncommon to want not to be gay given all the negative things we hear and have to deal with. Give yourself some time and don't worry too much about your sexuality. If you are gay it's only natural for you and not a choice as some will tell you. Be who you are and live happy. Life is too short to live it miserable.

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Another possibility is that, growing up, you were taught that sex with a member of the opposite sex was naughty and should not be considered until you were married. So, the rationalization here is that looking at another guy isn't really anything "bad", just kind of like glancing at the guy next to you in the shower at gym class to see how you stack up. then the next step would be to the gay porn. Does it mean you are gay, or just curious, or just looking at "what you know"? Can't answer that one for you. It could just be you are just a guy with a big sex drive and could masturbate over just about anything. :-)

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