No, there is no problem with it as long as there is no sex involved, when the 16 year old turns 18 they can have sex. But personally, I've met a 23 year old that is married to a 65 year old, so no there is no problem with that, because I can't have sex with my girlfriend; she's 18 and I'm not 18 yet so we can't have sex.
Some opinions by WikiAnswers contributors:well i dont think it is wrong but if you two really love eachother, you can wait until you are at least 18. 4 years starts to not be that big of a difference when you get older so my advice is to wait until you are at least 18. i hope that you two end up happy together!
Im 16 and with a 27 year old at the moment!! and looks like we are going to be together for a long time .. am engaged to him and am totally in love with him!!! so dont worry hun your not on your own!! and its not wrong!! if you love him go 4 it and dont worry what other people say and dont let them put you down!!!!!!
No, its not wrong because I was 16 when I met my future husband and he was 28, we have now been together for 8 years, been married for four and a half years, have two children and we are still going strong. There is so much you can both learn from each other, and I think the danger would only arise from the fact that you may not be emotionally ready to be involved with someone that much older. If you feel you are, then the only way to find out is to go for it! Im glad I did!
No, it isn't wrong at all! Just make sure that you don't rule out guys that are actually attainable.
You can learn some very important things about yourself through this too. Try to pinpoint what exactly it is about this great guy that makes you crazy about him. These could be physical, but also personality-wise too. You can learn what you are drawn to, and learn to recognize those traits in other people too.
But don't feel like you're committing some horrible sin or anything, what you are feeling is completely natural. Feelings are never right or wrong, they are simply there. So, it is useless to worry whether or not a feeling is right or wrong. What is right or wrong is your action, your response to the feeling.
Yes, that's not right. It's not love, it's infatuation. The outlook a 16 year old and a 27 year old have on life is completely different. They will not have common ground, and nothing to build a relationship off of. Bad idea.
: There is someone for everyone. If you like older men, and you consider how kind he is, and he makes you laugh, you can be alright with it. There are laws about under eighteen, but if you can get by that, you have something that may be hard to find for other people.
Oh please, person above the person above me.Sweetie, there's nothing wrong with being in love with someone older than you. My boyfriend's 20 and I'm 15! While you really should aim for people in your age group, it's not like it's a total sin. That's an 11 year age difference, but who cares? When you find someone you truly care about and it's someone who puts your feelings before theirs and vice versa, there's absolutely nothing wrong with it! So good luck!People will have different views about it and what matters is also the individuals. Not all 16yo are the same etc. What is right and wrong iss as individual as people. What is legal is another matter.
While dating is legal, that is seeing each other socially, any physical relationship is not legal.
Yes, legally and morally it is wrong but when she turns 16, there is nothing the law can do about this. (16 being the legal age in UK)
I don't think it is wrong at all, you can't help who you fall in love with - i should know by experience.
I'm 16 and I fell in love with a 25 year old man, who has an ex wife and 2 kids.
If this 15 year old girl is mature enough to love an older man then it shouldn't matter if he is 45/50 years old.
And even though she is underage, things need to stay in control until this young girl turns 16.
A lot of people can get the wrong idea about this situation, but until you are put into this kind of situation you will never know how hard it is.
To me age is just a number, love is the only thing that really matters.
No it is not wrong. In fact it is very normal. Be careful you are not mistaking love for lust. It is likely you are feeling both. Lust will fade, but if she still makes you happy a year from now then it is love. Never give up on love.
Depends on the couple. The minors parents have to be OK with this and nothing sexual can happen until the minor have reached age of consent. Dating itself is not illegal, there are only laws for sexual activity.
Not at all. With no other information, that age and age gap isn't all that unusual.
I doubt it unless my father and mother were wrong as well. This sortof thing is dependant on what is considered acceptable in a given society at any given time in history.
Yes. Be ashamed.
you still have feeling for each other its very sure to be if not prove me wrong
They missed each other and that's how they talk.
A circle!! * * * * * Wrong: the diagonals of a circle DO bisect each other. A triangle is a possible answer.
because its wrong
It would be "wrong", per se, to "be in love" with each other - but it WOULD be wrong to pursue a relationship. Both can get into lots and lots of trouble - socially, emotionally and legally (in USA anyway).
no as long as you guys love each other
dont just each other on something wrong
You need to stop experimenting with each other. It is wrong.
No, not at all if you guys are i a relationship you should help each other out.
no just kiss them and you might fall in love with each other
It is not "wrong" to have feelings for each other that are more than brother and sister. However, it may be best for you two to try and remember that you are now brother and sister and try to keep your feeling for each other on that. Talk to each other about it and then go from there. Just keep in mind that you are brother and sister no matter if it be by blood or by paper.
there is nothing wrong with it if they love each other i wouldn't break up no matter what people say