Is the first relationship with a man after his divorce doomed to be just a rebound?

Not Doomed to Be a Rebound

It depends if the divorced person just got divorced, feels lonely and is wanting a relationship too quickly. When people get divorced (I went through it) they should take time out for themselves to look back at what went wrong in their former marriage, learn from it and grow, then work on your own strengths and weakness'.

Not all first relationships are doomed after a divorce. The percentage is low, but there are some people that either know someone they love while they were still married, or, they truly have found someone that loves and respects them. Take it slow and easy. If you are having to ask this question of yourself then you aren't comfortable in the situation you are in or you're second-guessing yourself.

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• Not necessarily, but as the new person in his life you have to look out for you and be on your guard for any remissive behavior on his part. If he constantly brings up the ex, he may still have feelings, if he is bitter, then you may feel that you have to prove him wrong, which isnt your job to make him feel better about his ex, or other women. Just be yourself, have fun and dont invest too much too quickly.

• You and your ex started to like each other again in a boyfriend-girlfriend way and yous were considdering going out again what would you do if you stopped liking him?
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