Lovers love it Friends need it Relationship starts with it Life ends with it What is it -clue d a z-?

Rendeavulz, or randeavulz, or rendevouz are spellings of the French rendez-vous or RENDEZVOUS, which is the answer suggested by the form :
" xxxDxAxxxZ "
Rendezvous is a meeting between lovers, or the start of a relationship, or a meeting between friends. Death has been called a "rendezvous with destiny", or fate.
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This question appears in several alternatives with the letters d, a, and s, sometimes in a slightly different arrangement, such as ---d-a---s. Another variation has it with the letter z instead of the letter s, such as ---d-a---z. It is likely that the original riddle had the shorter form with the answer, "R" :
lovers love it - the r follows love in lovers
friends need it - there is an r in friends, without it they would be fiends
relationship starts with it - the word relationship starts with r
But "life" ends with the letter e. Life ends with death. Also, "the letter r" does not fit the spelling part of the clue.

Based on the wording of the clue and not the letters given, answers such as "acceptance", "friendship", and "commitment" were suggested. Answers that are closer to the spelling clue are "good habits" and "kind hearts", although they are two-word answers.
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THE ANSWER IS "IT" (of course, if you read the question "what is....IT...?)
rendezvous: meeting between lovers, or the start of a relationship, or a meeting between friends. Death has been called a "rendezvous with destiny", or fate.

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I don't have a clue where you all are coming up with all that gibberish above, but the answer is ... the letter "e". There's one in "lovers" and one in "friends". "Life" ends with an "e". And though "e" is not the very first letter of "relationship", it's one of the first two letters, and that's close enough to say it starts with "e". The "clue" simply lists three letters, letting you know that your answer is a letter. The "a" and "z" represent the alphabet, while "d" is the letter immediately preceding "e".