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No one is going to have a easy solution for this one, the old German saying comes to mind. Too, oldt too soo, too, late too schmat. After the fact is never the school of thought. You have to decide along with the other man, what exactly you need to do as to make the situation best for everyone. You both are going to hurt your spouses, immensely, and the children that are already in the picture will feel betrayed also, so now you must decide if you want to ruin your lives because of your stupidity or end a life of an innocent child that didnt ask to be born. Too heavy for you, sorry but this is your reality.......Prevention is the best preventative.
AnswerHowever difficult it may seem, and whatever happens as a result - as long as you do not fear physcial harm for you and your unborn child you NEED to tell your husband. If you love them, you will not let your child and husband live your lie. They deserve better. Treat them with the respect they deserve and tell the truth.If you really love your husband and don't want to lose him, tell him the good news that he is going to be a father. You may have to work around the dating to make this seem plausible, but that should be workable if you have been having regular sex with your husband. Whatever you do, don't tell him that you are pregnant with someone else's child, or your marriage will end. You should have been more careful so as to not get yourself in this mess.
Actually If you really love your husband you would tell him the entire truth and stand up and be an adult and take responsibility for your own actions and accept the consequences there after whether it be a divorce or not,you would not only be lying to him,you would be lying to his family and most of all you would be lying to your own child....You also pose the risk of him finding out sometime in the future...You will have to live the rest of your life lying to everyone....A lifetime of worring if someone will find out..a lifetime of worring if one day you will lose him because of your lying and deceptive ways..
Also what would it do to your own child emotionally if in say 10 years your husband does find out and then tells you and the child to get out?
The law will presume that your husband is the father. It will take a court order to change that.
far more than you could ever guess
He was married once to a woman who turned out to be pregnant with another mans child. He divorced her the same day they were married
No, in fact, you can give the baby any name you want, even a name that is totally unrelated to all three parties in the relationship.
Yes but you might need to go on Jerry Springer first.
Yes, and he has rights to visitation, and if he likes, he can arrange to have a custody hearing, if he feels he can prove you unfit. Such as if you cheat on your husband, or are having marital problems.
It can affect your chances of getting pregnant, some drugs have a link with a mans fertility
If either one is still married no. If all are unmarried, yes.
Certainly.
No. Once the sperm is in the egg no other sperm is allowed in.
It will not effect the mans body when a woman is pregnant. Many times men do get sympathy pains with their pregnant wives.
It depends on if she conceived the child before or after she paired up with the boyfriend and if the boyfriend was aware of the girl being pregnant at the time.
if a woman in menses eats mans sperms she won't get pragnent