My boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship for the past week i have been feeling sick after he leaves a facetime call or even if we are talking through text I miss him so much it hurts?
been there done that, my bf is 9 hrs away with family and I get depressed when he is gone. it will be ok. stay strong, and roleplaying helps me. pretend hes there when you get sad, pretend hes cheering u up with his up lifting jokes. yeah it seems like ur going crazy but we all do it, it will be ok
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Because were unable to change the situation you feel like a failure, when it wasn't your fault. Answer Because he did a good job making you feel guilty in the relationship …as though his abuse was your fault. Even if he admitted it at times that it was his fault and that he was sorry he was not genuine. He was only trying to futhur manipulate. So with that kind of treatment it only makes sense that the guilt would continue when you leave. You have taken far too much repsonsibility for a parasites behaviour. Once you become stronger you will reach a point where you think I dont care if what I did that time or this time was wrong I did not deserve to be abused! In time you will be able to put in more in perspective. Answer Unfortunately, this is a common effect on the victim of the abusive relationship and is part of what is commonly called "battered wife syndrome." The victim of an abusive relationship will, before finally giving up and leaving the relationship, blame themselves and have an immutable and unhealthy hope that the relationship will get better, perhaps if they are a better person and lover to their abusive partner. When they finally can motivate themselves (or have a friend help them to finally act) to remove themselves from the abusive relationship, this transmutes to feeling of guilt for giving up when they could have worked at it to make the relationship better (even though they may rationally realize there was nothing they could do to save it, and the relationship was not healthy for them).
How do you face your ex in passing when it's been over 3 years and he's married now and do men keep hard feelings when a past relationship put them through so much?
Answer . \nSome do but if he's married he had to put you behind because he couldn't move forward without realizing you weren't it for him so don't stress he's probably put …you out of sight and out of mind.
What does it mean when in a long distance relationship your ex calls after a few months and tells you that she still has feelings for you but has a boyfriend and stops talking after you find out?
Well from what it sounds like i would say you don't have much of a long distance relationship...its hard when someone lives far away but to make it work you BOTH have to try..….if she got another boyfriend then she isn't trying very hard and i doubt she really has true feelings for you still...there is a good chance she only told you that to make you feel less hurt when she told you about the other guy...my advice...move on..find someone who will be true to you and who lives closer to you..the sooner you move on the better. Answer why did she stop talking to you when you found out she had a b/f. Did you know her new dude? Answer Yes he was an old friend that was hitting on he when we dated and she said she "excommunicated" him from her and now they are going out and she calls me out of the blueand starts talking about getting back together and how her feelings have comeback.(Note: I havent seen her in almost 3 months) She didnt even mention him until i asked how the single life is treating her. The way i intepret it is that she still loves me and want me but im not there so she gets someone else and pushes me away.She says she is confused about her feelings towards me.Now she wont even call me anymore.
Why does a girl always have to talk to her ex and put me on hold I am on a long distance relationship with her and spend lots of money and time calling her What do I do I feel lost?
If she wants to talk to you let her call you because that is not proper what she is doing - if you are dating her long distant or not she should not still be conversing with h…er ex unless they have to such as having children. You may want to ask her if it is really over between her and her ex and she may be just stringing you along, he may not realize she talks to you and she is enjoying being the object of your affection. It may be best at this point to do what is best for you and maybe date people closer to your home.. It sounds like she is too insecure for a full time one on one relationship with you. If she needs to talk to him, she can't commit to just you; that's just not right.
Why is it my boyfriend has asked for a week to sort out how he feels i am in a long distance relationship only 2 months old and can you do anything to encourage him to give it a go?
id say.. give him his week.. you dont want to make him do something he may not want to do. if he decides to do a long distance relationship then congradulations he really ca…res about you. if he doesnt, then say goodbye.
My girlfriend doesnt communicate much.We're in a long distance relationship and cant talk much. So I text her so much but she does very less but she says that she loves me.How do I make her communicat?
You can't make anyone do anything. However, you can find a compromise by asking her how she wishes to keep in contact: letters? Or, each of you could buy a phone card and use …that to talk weekly? Long distance is tough in any case, but you are right in that communication is really important.
This guy and I have been talking for about 3 weeks and I am about to move to another state and he has told me that a long distance relationship for him will not work. Does that mean he doesnt like me?
Well it doesn't mean he doesn't like you, it just means that he might not want a long distance relationship as he may think that could get complicated and he may not want to b…e so far away from someone in that kind of relationship.
In the past few days you got close to another guy but you are in a long distance relationship and you love your boyfriend So is that considered as cheating on your boyfriend?
It depends what you mean by close. If you mean just talking and maybe talking about your personal life the most certainly not. If you mean pshyicaly close, then yes.
Your long distance relationship bf stops calling you and only texts saying he loves and misses you. Should you be worried?
I wouldn't think so. (I don't approve of long distance, but I never tried it)
If he's not talking, perhaps he is hiding something from you. Or it could be that he is still getting over his last relationship. If you think the latter is the case, don't pr…essure him into telling you and give it some time. If you think he is up to something, share your concerns, but don't seem angry or upset.
He ends up with a big phone bill.
Little things. ---------------- my opion is that you should talk to him on the phone. i think it comes more naturally to talk and it is much easier.
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What do you do when you feel like your boyfriend causes you to be sad than happy like you miss him so much and when you do talk to him ur not as happy as you use to be.?
Well first talk to him about it, and if it continues its time to move on. Remember you are not married you do not have to stay with him.
No, when texting it really should not matter where you are in the world. But to be sure, talk to your service provider to make sure there are no extra charges.
I am in a long distance relationship and before we used to talk for hours now we never even talk only text and every time I text either he gets mad or I do how can I fix the relationship?
Break up with him.
You cry over your long distance boyfriend every night because you miss him How can you not miss him so much?
move closer maybe youl see him more?
How do you get back your ex boyfriend in a long distance relationship when he doesn't even wants to pick up your call and may be also in a new relationship?
it never going to work unless u go where he lives and make him talk to you like in person and tell him how u feel