My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me and then slept with 3 girls 2 weeks later.He says he misses me now and wants to be friends what do I do?

I think you need to ask yourself whether he is really the kind of guy you want as a friend, when you were together were you actually happy? If you think he is a good guy and can keep perspective around him, instead of falling for him again, then do it, but if you may still have feelings for him, it's not worth it, you'll only get hurt and he really doesn't sound worth it.

Well the thing is in a span of four years we had broken up a couple times 2 weeks the most and we always got back together and told eachother what we had done..we never slept with anyone we would admit to like going to third base ect.. He always told me if he ever slept with anyone else it would be over. So the last 2 weeks things between us had been getting bad and he broke it off saying he was sick of me and my ways..he claimed I was like his mother or probation officer. And he started to stay at his friends house where they were selling drugs and girls doing crazy things.I decided not to call becuz everyone told me not to..even tho I usually crack and always go running to him...and this time for the 1st time in 4 years I found out he actually slept with not one but three girls! I heard all sorts of stories.orgys,girls walking around naked ect.. I wa not allowed at the house and he seemed like he didn't care about me it was really over ect.. He did it so soon after we broke up it had scared me..anyway they got evicted and then he had to go back home..he said he realized after the fact that he had been with those girls that he had missed me and that he used them just to bust a nut and felt like he had to do it to be rid of me and it didn't work and wanted to talk to me a month later..I don't kno what this all means what shld I do??

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