No one can tell you what to do with your life but you should not be putting up with any type of abuse at all and for your safety as well as your children it would be in your best interest to get out of there before it becomes worse a heaven forbid violent.
If your husband is verbally and emotionally abusive, you can break the negative cycle by seeking the services of a family counselor or filing for divorce.
Through a lawyer.
Yes. You have no control over who accompanies him to such events. If he is abusive toward you then discuss the situation with your attorney and take the matter to court if necessary.
by leaving him and staying in you mom's place.
#1. he is your husband and you need to respect him if he verbally abuseve then i would sugest to talk to him about it never hide things from your husband talk it over and if still does not listen then do something about it....and you know what i mean if he really loves you he will change
maybe because your so used to him calling your name all the time or aware/scared .
Immediately. Reach out to a close friend or relative for help, and leave as soon as you can.
One word: Drugs.
You will need a lawyer to try and get you full custody of your children and your lawyer will have to prove your husband is abusive to his children. If you presently have duel custody of your children and you take the children to the UK you could be charged with kidnapping.
Yes. As soon as you can.
I think its important to try and stay with some one for the sake of your children, but it sounds like your marrige is so bad, that all you are likely to be doing is upsetting the children with your arguments, and him being abusive to you. I think long term, the children will be happier if you split up, and they could see both their parents truly happy.
I am sure that it would depend on the abusive ex-husband.