If they are less than 13 they were gifted with lazy parents.
The reason we see black things as the color black is because no or little light is reflected from the object to our eyes.
Different men have different types of people and different specific body types they are attracted to. This can run the gamut between feminine, slender and small to burly and hairy, extremely tall or...
The vast majority, of course, do no such thing. I suppose if you find one that does, you could ask him.