Better not do it. The one who did NOT want to adopt the child may resent the child and treat him/her badly. That would be very unfair to the child.
You may want to see a professional for advice on resolving the issue. The parent who wants a child may feel resentful if the couple does not ever have children. And the parent who does NOT want a child may feel trapped by having a child.
Stepfamily and adoption
Adoption(dotcom)'s website offers comprehensive information regarding all forms of adoption. While it is not the definitive source, it is one of the most widely used resources. Parents(dotcom) is another good resource to find information regarding single parent adoption.
It's the adoption process in which both the birth parent(s) and the adoptive parents are made known to each other. http://www.openadoption.com
Adoption is the act of legally placing a child with a parent or parents other than those to whom there were born.
Until the adoption is final they can change their minds.
Adoption is when you become a legal parent to a child who is not your own son or daughter. Adoptive means one who adopts, so it means a parent who has adopted a child not born to them.
In Washington, a parent cannot ordinarily give up parental rights. The exception is if the other parent's spouse wants to adopt the child, and the other birth parent doesn't want to contest the adoption.
In general, parental rights are terminated either preparatory to an adoption, or after a trial in which it is determined that the parent is unfit. In any case, termination of parental rights does not, in itself, terminate child support.
Gay adoption is legal in all 50 states, but laws vary greatly regarding joint adoption and step-parent adoption.
The options are these:Joint adoption of an unrelated child by both partners.Stepparent (or "second parent" adoption) of one partner's child by the other partner.Individual adoption of a child by one partner with no legal status for the other partner.In some US states, a child born to a woman while she is married to another woman is automatically the child of both women, but many such couples choose to obtain a legal adoption to ensure that the relationship is recognized in states where the marriage is not.Which options are available to you depend upon which state or country you live in.
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An annulment dissolves the marriage as though it had never taken place. If two unmarried people have a child one does not need to adopt the child to be its legal parent. If it was your marriage and is your child the annulment doesn't affect your position as the child's parent. An adoption isn't necessary. You should consult with an attorney. On the other hand, if you wish to adopt a child from your present spouse's annulled marriage to another person then the child's other parent must consent to the adoption.