Before the opening to the vagina there is a pea sized ball called the clitoris you should stimulate that harder and faster as the sex continues you should also lick her pusst
Foreplay should be an amorous sensual adventure, making her needs and desires a priority and yours secondary, if you learn and practice this concept you will be considered a very caring expert lover,...
The best way I could answer this is to just say, if you dont want to break your virginity, just use your hands or some object that would give you pleasure to the outside area of your female...