Your boyfriend hasn't texted you back should you text him?

Answer 1

* Before being offended by a friend or boyfriend not calling or talking think about possible reasons why. If he is working or at school then it would be very improper for you to text him as he probably will not be able to call or immediately text back, and it may get him in trouble. If there is no obvious reason then a text simply stating that you are thinking of him would be proper. Do not text him asking why he hasn't called as that is an inflammatory question and may cause a fight. Simply let him know you are thinking of him and miss him and he should be able to infer that you wish to speak to him. Also if he is at work or school this type of text will be more acceptable to those who may be disturbed. Also, have you considered that he either forgot his cell phone or the battery on it may have died? * People that are 'going together' engaged or even married should learn to have a life of their own such as seeing their own friends; joining groups of interest; learning by taking extra courses at night school or college; and becoming independent. Many men don't like the feeling of suffocation when their mate is constantly wondering where they are or if they don't text or phone each other every single day. There is a trust issue the two must be loyal on and if there is then 'head space' is needed for both parties. When a young woman or young man can honestly be independent enough to strike out on their own re subjects of interest and gaining knowledge and realize they don't always need a mate to get on in life this is the time when both parties will be successful at a relationship. So, just because your boyfriend has not texts you doesn't mean he isn't thinking of you. Be smart, get busy and let him contact you. Absence makes the heart grow fonder!

Answer 2

No, just ask him about it the next time you see him.

Alternate answer.

Often times, males don't immediately respond to SMS text messages if they are busy or in a situation which prohibits the use of cell phones, (I.e, driving). If you send multiple messages, it may even inturrupt what he was typing in the first place, or confuse the conversation. It's best to wait for a reply. If none is made by several hours, it is generally permissable to send a message via another channel, such as email or Myspace, saying something like, "Check your txt messages", the idea being not to aggrivate or seem clingy. A day/night cycle is sufficient to allow a new message or a phone call as if they are unrelated.