Should you worry if your new boyfriend's best friend is a girl?

Answer 1

I don't think you're looking too far into things. She sounds pretty awful. The social media stuff is one thing, but her disapproving of you/your relationship is over the line. You should have an honest conversation with him about her. He may get defensive, but you need to let him know you're not comfortable with certain things about this arrangement.

Answer 2

No. My current best friend is a girl and we have an understanding. It's so much easier to communicate and better understand the opposite sex if your friends in that accord. She gives me the best advice on my relationships because she's a woman. And I can do the same for her. The one thing that I also do, out of respect for my girlfriend, is introduce them to her and include them in being around the two of us so that they can see there's nothing to worry about. Once they see how it is truly a friendship, that can never be anything greater, they tend to relax and actually find themselves hanging out as girls on occasion. So no, don't worry, be open and receptive. Now if you have reason to believe that there's more at stake, talk to your boy friend because truly it falls on him as to what kind of relationship they have and how you play into being involved.

Stay focused but be receptive...good luck!

Kevin

AnswerMy best friend was this guy and he was going out with someone else, I liked his girlfriend and they had been going out for seven years, so I guess that helped things because she felt secure. But over time we got closer and closer until he left her for me. Not saying it's going to happen in this case but it does happen..

Keep communication open with this girl, befriend her if you can, it'll ease your mind. One thing to watch for is touching, like tickling or poking.. That's disrespectful to you as his girlfriend.

hey,

I had been with my ex for 4 months, her best friend was J.R. (a guy). now as of 3 hours ago I am single because she said she has always loved J.R. and she believes she should be with him. mind you I took care of this girl. Chivalry at any moment, thoughtful little vacations to the beach, dinner the whole nine yards. J.R. constantly was rude to her and what not but she considered him her best friend. Now I would like to make my point.

best friends who are the opposite sex will never work because:

1. your supposed to be with the person of the opposite sex who is your "best friend".

2. refer to number one

Answer 3

No. Most guys will make friends with their girlfriend's best friend so its completely normal.

However! If he spends too much time with your best friend (say.. almost everyday he talks to her more than he talks to you) then he may start to have feelings towards her. And that is what you should look out for in every relationship

Answer 4

It honestly depends on the situation. Some boys can remain faithful while still being mature, platonic friends with their exes. If you're questioning it, the trust in the relationship is probably lacking... that's going to ruin the relationship probably faster than any ex-girlfriend being his best friend. Best of luck.