Answer:
1. you can go to www.clubpenguin.com for any age. waddle around and make friends!!
-you rock!
2. My daughter who is a preteen who likes to express herself, she is 13 yrs old, and the other day we found this web site, a community for preteen girls and teen girls
She LVS www.femmunity.com, and I really think is a safe ONLY GIRLS interactive online web site, that provides a nice online diary that they can keep safe and private.
Disney.com has chatting rooms.
also go to omgpop.com it has fun gaMES OR poptropica,didie games,y8.com