If you aren't making enough money alone, then your husband/wife should work also because you need more money to keep things going. If you don't have enough money to cover the bills or pay for diapers, then he/she needs to get a job too. There's many places where you can get diapers/baby wipes/baby clothes/baby toys for free if you need them. There are many phone numbers you can call to get help, I suggest you start by calling the nearest WIC office to you so you can get help. Don't think of yourself as helpless or poor, because getting help like that is a gift and being thankful is all you should worry about.