Was he abusive?

We cannot speak for all abusive men, but we assume that most of them know that they are abusers. Abusive men tend to come from abusive homes, and the behavior may seem normal to them. Others may feel...

Many times, women don't "seek out" abusive men necessarily, but women are often attracted to "bad" boys, and that is just the way it is, no reason for it. And of course those bad boys could end of...

not always but some time they can be both

Men who are abusive remain abusive. If they move on to another woman they are charming, and a chameleon (meaning: they change their colors to suit their needs.) It's like the "spider and the fly."...