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I totally agree with the above. The absolute best form of humour is the natural, spontaneous, unprepared kind. It's great spending time with someone who is a good conversationalist but especially so if they have the ability to drop in the odd humorous observation or comment now and then. For me, that's always been the key to any success I've ever had with women...certainly not my looks or my money or whatever!

If I were you, I'd try out the following....try to work out the kind of things she's not interested in. Maybe that's sports or her dad's pet dog or her job or whatever. Use these topics to engage her in conversation and make her upset, get her talking and really try to listen to her yelling at you. Girls love that. Most men dont listen and tend to talk too much. By listening you are picking up more information about what she likes and arent having to 'entertain' her all of the time....everyone loves talking about themselves after all! Once you've got her talking just make little jokey remarks now and then. Women generally really like it when a man pokes fun at them. Not in a cruel way, in a cheeky way. For example...maybe she's said that her boss told her she's great at her job. In that instance I would say something like "really?" in a kind of quizzical way as if I think she's lying to me. If you do little things like that (with a little smile on your face and good eye contact) she should understand that you arent being serious and you are making fun.

Obviously, dont go over the top and be cheeky with everything she says(and dont be cheeky about her physical features, her clothes or family either untilyou know her well) but doing this kind of thing when you are talking to her can be good fun and create a nice flirty atmosphere. If this kind of humour is something that you havent done before, dont worry, you get better at it over time. I didnt used to do it either but now its second nature. Just remember the eye contact and the little smile when you make such cheeky jokes, that way, she wont think you are just being an ass.

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