What are some signs that your husband doesn't love you any more?

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I feel it is almost impossible to accurately know the true answer to that question. I think that most importantley you need to ask yourself "Have you be Lovable? if you have and you still do not feel any love back from your husband, for sure you need to ask him and make sure he knows what your emotional needs are and the ones that are not being met.

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Peter gave you some solid advice. I've been married for 32 years and sometimes a married couple becomes like a pair of old slippers ... comfy, the other is suppose to know what the other one wants at all times, mind-reading (LOL) etc. For some married couples the "honeymoon is over" once reality sets in of rushing off to work, working shift work or working late, paying mortgages and bills. Then along comes your children. Raising kids as most know is a full-time job and often the wife can be so tired she forgets her husband is around.

I also suggest that you sit down with your husband and voice your concerns. Men just go about their daily working lives and don't really think as in depth re relationships as women do. Your husband probably thinks everything is A-OK. When you tell him your feelings be sure you have some solutions to your problems such as:

"You know, perhaps we should take a vacation or at least a mini vacation. We can leave the kids with mom and dad or friends."

or

"Wouldn't it be great if we decided to take one day off each weekend and either go out and visit friends, take in a movie, go to a nice pub or restaurant?"

or

"I miss cuddling and talking about our hopes and dreams with you. How about a nice romantic dinner together at home (I'll ship the kids off to their grandparents) and there will just be the two of us."

Be sure and ask your husband if he has any concerns as well.

Things are going to be OK!

First answer by Peter Anderson. Last edit by Marcy. Question popularity: 149 [recommend question]