Here is a good place to start: http://www.chesscentral.com/chess_strategy/chess_strategy.htm
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There are dozens, if not hundreds, of books about chess strategy. Check your local library or any...
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There are lots of strategies in soccer.
There are actually schemes in which each player has his role.
There are defensive or offensive strategies.
The most known are
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