There are several observations below, but IMHO these are the key things:
Masturbation is normal -- probably 95% of guys (and most girls) do it. It won't make you go blind, or grow hair on your palms, or any of that.
Sex is wonderful: it's what humans are designed to do. But sex should be responsible -- know what you're doing, what the consequences may be, and be ready to deal with them. Sex should be "consensual" -- meaning that both of you want to have sex, and that both of you understand that "no means no", even if "no" happens in the middle of things. No seduction, no pressure, no force. And sex should be equitable: it's supposed to be fun for both of you. If it isn't you're doing something wrong.
And Porn is porn: it's make-believe. The real world isn't like that, real people aren't like that, and most of the time real sex isn't like that! Porn is just as fake as Star Wars.
Next answer:
Relax have sex when your ready and talk to your parents when it's time I have already done it and its awesome.
Alright, let's see here... Find the question about "masturbation and premature ejaculation", you should find my long winded response very informative, unless they change it or take it off. It will then mention another question I answered
Check out the following websites for more info:
http://www.jackinworld.com/
http://advancedmasturbation.com/
And have fun! =)
The ultimate masturbation is done with the tongue. As most men can't do this to themselves a "wank buddy" is essential.