Answer:
Real-life Roman Catholics are only bound to agree with the Pope on ecclesiastical matters of faith and dogma. Our personal like and dislikes are our own.
There is no 'church' as a singular identity. Though all religions believe 'theirs' is THE church or belief system that is correct.
In most, the 'official' view is handed down by the rulers of the various churches though there are many who disagree with these pronouncements.