What are the positives and negatives for a man to get married in America today and does one outweigh the other?

Answer 1

• Assuming you live in America and believe in love then it is all positives to get married. Everyone who decides to get married runs the risk of having their marriage end in divorce, but, a large majority of these marriages is the break-down of communication and not being dedicated to being loyal; honest and love the person they are with through the good and bad times and there will be some. A mature man has to look at the woman he feels he loves as having substance to her and just not looks. Example: She's got a fairly good sense of humor; she is interested in what you have to say; she is a good listener; kind and either wants to have children as you do or possibly neither of you do and this is something both people in the relationship when they first meet need to discuss if they are taking their relationship to another level. She has the strength to cover your back or stand beside you when you have problems or there is a financial problem. If a man enjoys his freedom and feels he would feel smothered by the demands a marriage requires then he must make the decision to stay single or 'sow his wild oats' before settling down. For some lucky men they are doing well financially so there would be no problems with the bad economy in the U.S., but, if he is a middle class worker this could pose a problem, but there is always a solution to a problem when it comes to love and if two people really love each other they can move to Another Country just like the good old pioneers did many years ago. There are really no negatives.