If you're having trust issues perhaps a long distance relationship is not for you and your girlfriend. Talk to her candidly about your feelings and what is going on. If she is not mature enough to commit or you are not confident enough in who you are to accept what she says, perhaps you should move on.
A::She wont call when she tells you she will or wont come online. Even if she does call she will seem distant and busy or preoccupied. Her music taste will change and she will ask you what you think of certain artists you never knew she liked. One of the best way to check is if she has a profile on some thing like facebook or my space. Read her walls to find out what her firends talk about and you might get a clue. One other way is for you to disappear for a few days. Like don't call as much and pretend to be busy. This will show if she actually cares about you and misses you. If you get a negative vibe from her it doesn't mean she is cheating with you it could also mean she might not want to be with you. So cut your losses and just let it go.They make up reasons for getting off the phone or internet when things start to get too personal.
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There are ways you can tell if your spouse have a long distance relationship. Especially if you he works a bit closer to where you live. But there are also some married man who travel for business, so if this is the facts, it will be hard for you to find out if he is doing it. The only way you can do right now is make a list of what time he leaves for work and the time he comes home. Then if he also travel you can also make a list on that. Now if you finalize this list you have and your husband if short of hours being home or even taking a long time for him to comes home, that will be the sign. Secondly pay attention to his cell phone, not the numbers he have inside his cell but the monthly statement we all get every month from the company that owns the cell phone. This will be your leverage... last but not the least his computer at home..
Less contact. Otherwise, there are no ways to know - if you don't want her to know- don't mention it, and she doesn't spend enough time with you to see your body language or changed habits. Oh, and the gut feeling can play funny tricks when on a long-distance relationship, so mind that.
Well the answer above is good but coming from a guy id say my friend told me he was cheating and i always went over 2 his house when his gf came over i had 2 hide under the bed or in the closet he truly did oblivious lieing. u should be able 2 tell if hes lieing.
1. When he acts different then usual.
2. When he thinks its all about him and refers to things that only has to do with him.
3. When you ask him a question about what he is doing, then he answers you with another quesstion.
4. When you tell him you love him and he hesitates to answer.
5.You catch an STD from him-disease -
sexually transmitted
6.Lube all over his arse-affair with another man
7.Too many calls from a number registered under a man's name-a trick or
Too many calls from a family member.Go through his mobile for these numbers when he is in the shower.
When you know he is lying to you. If he is going off irregularly or he is not coming home when he is supposed to. If you think that he is actually cheating on you then you are probably right. You should have it out with him and find out what he is up to when he is away.
if he's in the military, it'd be very unlikely that he'd cheat.. if i were you, instead of wasting your time thinking he's cheating when he's not, i'd start praying to God to keep him safe and bring him back home to you.. that's what i would do..
thats true, my boyfriend is in the navy... he cheated once before he left to the navy, but i doubt hes still doing it. when they go through boot camp its like life changing.you become very different and very respectfull of the ones you love. also they have very very strict rules in any branch of the military, its very unlikley they'd be fooling around like that when they have more important things to concentrate on.
Some clear signs that your boyfriend is cheating, is when he starts changing; like coming home late, or not telling the truth about minor stuff. When he is getting messages on his phone, or if he deletes incoming and outgoing calls. If you try to reach him and he doesn't answer, or if he goes out but doesn't want you there, or if he is dishonest about where he was and who he was hanging out with. If he loves you, there is no reason not to be truthful.
If you have been together for awhile then just like the first person answered. People are creatures of habit, when they get up, go to bed, what the wear, when they go out, where they go out, when and how often they contact you. If you see changes in this behavior then something is usually up. It doesn't always mean their cheating but it can mean they are losing interest in you. Either way it leads to a split.
you can't really tell if someone is cheating on you or not so if you trust him then should'nt that be good enough??? if you don't trust him.......break up...... xxnataszaxx
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If they accuse you of always being with other people and get mad at you for no reason
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If he spends a lot of time away from you or won't answer your calls, or if he isn't romantically or physically attracted to you as he was in the very beginning.
On google, search "50 signs you're husband/boyfriend is cheating on you." It really helped me with something I went through.~Sandra~
not spending time with you and maybe not sleeping with you
He might be not answer your calls.
him fading away or goes out a lot without telling you anything about where he's going.....but ask him before you do something that could ruin the relationship.....and if you still dont believe him then break up cuz a true gf would trust her boyfriend....but its ok to be a little cautious
Yes, there are.
He can't hang out with you because he has to do "stuff" You barely see him When you do hang out he always seems to be texting somebody These are signs that he is cheating
If your boyfriend starts to stop showing affection towards you and is always busy and going out instead of being with you. These are signs of your boyfriend cheating on you.
No way to know for sure unless there are clear signs that your Boyfriend is in fact cheating on you, do you have any details that may give a better clue to whether or not he may or may not actually be cheating?
To know if a guy is cheating on his long distance fiance one has to keep a watch over them. One has to read the signs of cheating if there are any. One has to read the speech etc to know that.