What are the steps to improve your personality?

Without knowing what your personality is like, and since everyone is different, there is no simple answer to this. But wanting to improve you personality is actually the first step in doing so. Beyond that, you have to be brutally honest with yourself and decide what qualities, traits, or characteristics about your self that you feel need improving. For example:

• If you have trouble maintaining long, loyal and sincere relationships (friends or boy/girl friends) then you need to ask yourself why, then work on what you need to do to change it.
• Are you loyal and considerate with your friends, or do you tend to be more selfish to your own wants than you are to theirs?
• If you tend to be overly critical of others, then you need to realize that everyone is different, but special in their own way, and have as much to contribute to society as any one else does.
• When engaged in conversation with others, do you tend to tune them out as they talk, just waiting for them be be quiet so you can talk, or do you actually listen to them?
• Do you try to help others when they need it, or do you prefer not to be bothered?
• Are you honest with friends, family, co-workers, etc., or do they never know when to believe what you tell them?
• Do you tend to talk about others behind their back? If so, then others may wonder what you may be saying behind their back, and become hesitant to trust you.
• If you will answer these questions honestly to yourself, then that will give you the answer you are looking for, and you can take it from there.