The question is vague, since there are in fact six forms of the word "the" in German: der, die, das, dem, den, des. Which form is used is not enough, in itself, to denote gender, since the tense...
The three K´s were a conception of the traditional women`s role. The whole phrase is "Kinder, Küche und Kirche" = children, kitchen and church. That means that a woman was supposed to care for the...