What can a 13 year old use for lubricant?

Answer 1

At the age of 13, you are still considered a minor, therefore it would be best to ask your parents or a medical adviser/teacher at school. This would enable you to get an informed opinion without common myths included, and to not use harmful products.

A need for a lubricant in a young female can indicate that, either there is not enough foreplay, or her body is not mature and ready for this activity. Discuss with your doctor and have a gynecological exam to determine if your body is ready.

Once you have talked to a medical professional or other adult for correct information, the answer will depend on whether you are a male or female.

For males, there are a few lubricants made specifically for the purpose that you can obtain over the counter, however it does rely on personal preference and how much you want to spend on the products. Some males, when going solo, like to use an oil (such as baby oil), or lotion (fragrance free would be the better choice). Whereas, some prefer to just hop into the shower and use the good old soapy water. With a female partner, you must consider how the product will affect her body, too. Oils, lotions and soaps are not recommended for this use and can result in vaginal irritation or infection.

For these reasons, females should not use lubricants or oils that are not made specifically for the purpose of internal application. These can be unsafe for girls or women (baby oil or soaps, for example). Only products that are water soluble should be used for vaginal application. KY-jelly is a good choice, or there are, again, specific products for use available over the counter. If this is for self pleasure, and there will be no vaginal penetration, then baby oil could be used, but other products would still be a preference even for this use. Soaps, fragrances, and other products not for the purpose can cause irritation or infection. The vagina has some built-in protection against bacteria, but this can be bypassed if the pH is changed by improper product use or if the "good bacteria" are killed by soaps or products not for vaginal application.

Note: if you are not going solo, sexual activity with a minor is illegal in the US.