Usually talking to a school counselor or psychologist or someone who doesn't know the mother would seem like the best route. These people should be more objective and able to make a better assesment of what's actually going on. Always remember not to take it personally! Even though it hurts that your mom denied abusing you it was probably just a way to protect herself from the shame of everyone knowing that she abused you.Try talking to people that dont know of this incident like a friend that lives far away or a distant family member that has experienced abuse too.This people would most likely believe you and know that you would never makeup or lie about this.Their words of wisedom would propably be most accurate and you will be glad of their support.
me the mother most of all, but i feel like my son is being mentally persuaded also
Although it's mentally unhealthy for everyone involved, the answer is yes. If the son and father share a mutual disgust for the mother they can bond in this fashion.
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teach him a lesson
The mother goes to jail for abusing David.
This relative would have to petition the court for custody/guardianship. Of course, they would have to prove to the court that the mother is mentally unstable/unfit. And, even if that is proven, it's not an automatic guarantee that the court would award custody/guardianship to the relative. The court does have the option of placing the minor under state care. If you are in an unsafe environment, then call the authorities!
the mother abusing David and taking control of everything at home
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the mother abusing David and taking control of everything at home
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You don't need to know. You just have to love her.
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