Men (and Women) can be abusive (physically or mentally) for many different reasons. Most abusers were abused themselves: usually as children. Reading in depth psychological research could help further your understanding. Most abusive partners - in relationships- feed on hurting the other person and then making it "all better." This is a control mechanism. The one who hurts you is also the only one who makes you feel better. Most abusive people are insecure and damaged. If you are in an abusive relationship, it is best to get out. If you feel that you are unsafe and leaving would only make matters worse. Contact your local police precinct or call the national Domestic Abuse hotline. 1 800 799 7233 - someone can help.
Because they want your pity. This is suppose to make you feel guilty and stay with him.
abusive
not always but some time they can be both
No...it should make them lethargic...they were abusive before the drugs.
She loves the man that is abusive.
He is a drunk, or a druggee, or that he is just plain a lost man, without Christ and without peace and happiness. a man can and will be abusive if he is insecure. He is controling and doesnt trust anyone. If he holds grudges he can become abusive. I lived it.
It would be very dangerous to intervene on an abusive man and his wife. A better solution would be to contact the police or to offer to help the wife get away from the abusive man. Domestic violence is a widespread problem in our country, and there are people able and willing to help.
If a man is abusing his girlfriend and or wife, then he will more than likely be abusive to all women. It is a mind frame, women to him = abuse. This is not true in all cases but in most of them.
An abusive man (emotional,physical, etc.) will seek insecure woman.Woman who are not independant. Someone to take care of their needs.And that is it, someone to satisfy their needs. An abusive man can not change, a woman can not change him. He has to change himself. He had to do it all alone, if he really wants to recover.I really wish all the ladies in abusive relationships strength. That is what they need to leave.
it is possible
Men, because they are stronger than a women when they are a adult. It would depend on what you mean by abusive, as women can be more abusive verbally, which could result in a man getting physical. Cases where women are physically abusive, don't tend to be reported, as it is embarrassing for a man, also many believe they wouldn't be taken seriously.
He was abusive.