How to turn my husband on?

Answer 1

• Spice up the bedroom! Give him a little foreplay to turn him on. Get a sexy outfit and buy some lingerie. Walk around in a thong and bra in the morning too. If you have a pool/hot tub, go skinny-dipping together and have sex in there. Tell him that you're his slave. Cater to him. Make his fantasies come true!
• Give him oral sex. Guys think that is the best when you will go down on them. On the other hand, just because you turn him on doesn't mean you love him.
• You could try something that will really make him know you love him, like a poem or say something sweet. Do little things to show you care.
• There are no special techniques or tricks that convey love. Do what you normally do, only with intensity, desire and selflessness. Americans are constantly looking for some special sex secret. The best lovers are those that have sex as if it were special all by itself.
• Ask yourself, "what would I want?" All humans crave attention, true affection, and to know that someone else really cares for us and values us. Show him that, and he will know how you feel.
• Ask him if there's something special you can do for him and explain the reason why. Over a special dinner maybe.
• Every now and then you should make it appoint to dress up as sexy as you can so when he comes home he'll see what good thing he has. and if you have a trench coat men seem to find it very sexy to wear a coat and have little to nothing on underneath. make sure you give him a peak show and let the coat drop. it works every time. you may even spark him up to work even harder to bring home extra bacon!

• You don't always have to turn your mate on to show him you love him. Do little things like cook him his special meal or a surprise dessert. "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach!" My husband can work a lot of O/T and so when he gets home (after I give him dinner) I run a nice hot bath for him with bubbles and Epsom Salts to soothe his muscles and give him a glass of wine. Takes no time at all, but it shows him I appreciate how hard he works. I also give him a rub-down.

• You don't need to turn on a guy to show your love, but if you want to turn him on, try little things. I wouldn't do sweet little things, like poems etc. I would notice poems and such, but I wouldn't associate it with love right away. Do "little things" like dress with a tighter or low cut shirt in the morning and make sure he sees you before you go to work( assuming it is alright to dress that way at work) He'll be thinking about it all day and it will 'get his engines going'. Also, many men look at porn because they think that it is something that wouldn't happen to them. I.E. Trying a very different position. Look for cliches that your husband might like (look in the history files on your computer) Then turn his "fantasy"" into reality. Guys do relate sex/intimacy with love (along with other things) ...no matter what women think.

• Turning your man on is the one of the best way to show your husband you love him. If you are avoiding becoming his sexual and erotic lover than all the other things you do to try to show him you love him may just fall short. Most husbands want to have passionate hot and erotic sex with their wives. So if you really want to show love for your husband, buy something crazy sexy and have sex in the kitchen, in the car, or in your back yard. Sex is not the answer to everything, but it does help men in incredible ways. If you don't know how to really enjoy sex with your husband, stop letting your marriage slip by and go get a few books on the subject and learn how to be his lover.

• I agree that you need to do the little things as much as the big things. I have the perfect husband, the kind of husband you does everything around the house. So when I do little things like dishes or laundry that just lets him know that I appreciate him and love him. Also ask your husband what turns him on! He will appreciate the fact that you care enough just to ask and who knows his fantasy my be your fantasy. You can't go wrong!

Answer 2

1) Hire a baby sitter (GrandMa to take the kids out for a while) Set the phone to vibrate or turn down the volume. (believe me you will want too!!!

2) Dim the lights or throw a non-flamable red (RED) cloth/shirt over a few lamps.

3) Play sexy music, not to fast but something you know the beat too.

4) Wear shear / a see through lingerie easy to remove sexy top. Doesn't have to fit.

5) Beneath that wear a little bra and panties. Perk them boobies up. Not many men like saggy boobs. But most tend to like fore play and indulgment. Wear comfy panties taht won't hurt your crack as you walk. (Wife's suggestion)

6) Wear sexy high heels that you only use on special occasions. If still a little self consious then wear shear knee highs or thigh highs. But leave our crotch easily accessable.

7) Leave your hair natural or freash (clean though) No body want's hair spray in their mouth... well.

8) Leavethe music turned down so you can hear each other moan and breathe. But the temp a little low so as you are getting hot you don't smell of sweat. But most men indulge in that so spritz water on your lips, chest, belly button and if going bare legs (your thigh)

9) Tease him with it. Play a little cat and mouse. If he reaches naughtily klean the other way or strut more. Make him reach out and grab you tight and never want to let you go. Kiss like your passionately in love and crazy for each other. Nothing to worry about in the world but each other and that moment.

10) Savor these moments and ride hard for a few minutes and thrust. Then slow down and savor it and make out. Make her / him feel special and as if it was the best sex,love making / sensual experince. Then lay in each others arms holding on tight and staring into each others eyes and listening to each other breath, each others heart beat and feeling, smelling, even tasting each other. (No talking) Just use your other senses and savor them all.

This is a great way to turn on your man. Your husband will be so excited you may do it more often. But don't over do it. Don't have sex like this all the time because it will take away from the special moments that you WILL have. PS: Candles can be dangerous and the door should be locked, all shades drawn and babies arehealthy and taken well care of. You need these moments to yourselves.